Selah House Rule

This rule is not a rigid set of laws, but a guiding light for the Selah House community. The Selah House rule is a guide for living in love with God, self, others, creation, and the creative process. The rule recognizes that community life comes with profound challenges. This rule was written 12 years after the Selah House first opened its doors. We hope it provides practical ways to embody and express Christ's love in daily life, creative work, and spiritual practice.

As artists who need both a certain level of structure and autonomy in order to create, we believe a community isn't about diminishing individual effort or talent, but about placing it in the context of a greater whole. It's about recognizing that we are part of something much larger than ourselves, and that our greatest works often come when we align ourselves with the divine Source.

By remembering the path of love we find in Jesus, we allow the grace of the Spirit to cultivate an environment at Selah House where creativity is experienced as a sacred gift and a form of communion with God. This perspective can lead to more authentic and inspired work, while also fostering a sense of unity and shared purpose within the community.

Seek the Center

Let your life revolve around the creative force of God's love. Center down daily. Yes, through shared prayers rhythms, but more so through a gentle orientation of the heart to our Maker. Allow this alignment with God to resonate through your daily life and practice.

Deepen your Practice

At Selah House, we embrace the diversity of spiritual art practices, recognizing that each person's journey is unique. You don't have to be quiet. You don't have to be loud. The rhythms of our spiritual art practice may vary. For some, it might involve daily rituals or consistent schedules. For others, it could be more fluid, responding to the ebb and flow of inspiration. We also recognize that these rhythms can change over time. At Selah House, we encourage each other to trust in this process, even when the path isn't clear.

We believe in the power of centering down in humility and being present in the moment, allowing our art to emerge in a myriad of ways from a deep connection with God.

As makers, we also understand that the spiritual art practice is a walk of faith with God, a journey that sometimes manifests visibly and other times remains hidden from view. There are seasons when our work is outwardly productive and visible. These are times of clear inspiration and tangible creation. However, we equally value the invisible seasons, the winters, the periods of quiet gestation, reflection, internal growth, and even confusion. We honor these less visible phases, understanding that they are crucial for deepening our connection to God and our creative source.

We also acknowledge the challenges that come with this journey. There may be times of doubt, fear, or struggle. We support each other through these periods, sometimes through offering space, sometimes loving challenge, recognizing them as part of the deepening process. Ultimately, we believe that by honoring both the visible and invisible aspects of our spiritual art practice, we open ourselves to a fuller experience of God's creative force. We trust that this journey, in all its diverse forms and rhythms, leads us to a deeper understanding of ourselves, our art, and our relationship with God.

Embrace the Stranger

Selah House is rooted in the radical hospitality of Jesus' love. It's about creating a space where everyone, regardless of their background or beliefs, feels genuinely welcomed and valued. Because they are.

See Christ in Every Face, Every Body: Approach each person who enters the doors of the Selah House as if they were Christ himself. This mindset transforms how we interact with others, especially those who are different from us.
Practice Active Listening: When engaging with newcomers or those unfamiliar to you, listen deeply and attentively. Seek to understand their story, their struggles, and their aspirations without judgment.
Embrace Diversity: Actively seek out and welcome people from diverse backgrounds, cultures, spiritual and artistic disciplines. Recognize that this diversity enriches the community and expands our understanding of God and creativity.
Suspend Judgment: When confronted with ideas or practices that seem strange or challenging, suspend your initial judgments. Instead, approach with curiosity and openness.
Share Your Story: While exchanging new and old ideas are crucial to spiritual and creative growth, also be willing to share your own story and experiences. Authentic exchange creates deeper connections.
Extend Grace: Remember that everyone is on their own journey. Extend grace to those who may not yet understand or fit into the community's rhythms.
Learn from the Stranger: Be open to the possibility that the stranger may have something valuable to teach you about God, art, and community. Every person carries a unique perspective that can enrich our understanding.

This rule is about creating a web of relationships that finds its source in Christ's love and extends that love to all who enter this space. Embracing the stranger isn't always easy. It can be uncomfortable and challenging. But it's in these moments of discomfort that we often find the greatest opportunities for growth, both personally and as a community. By truly embracing this principle, Selah House can become a place where the kingdom of God is made tangible through acts of radical welcome and love.

Gather in Grace

Embrace the power of coming together in shared moments of prayer and meals. These gatherings are the heartbeat of our community, offering opportunities for deep connection, nourishment of both body and spirit, and collective centering in the abundance of God. Again, we root these gatherings in the radical hospitality and grace exemplified by Jesus. This allows us to worship Christ while welcoming and learning from diverse traditions and perspectives.

Open Invitation: Extend a warm, standing invitation to all community members for shared prayers and meals. Let each person's participation be a free choice, not an obligation.
Create Sacred Space: Designate times and spaces for communal prayer and worship that are Christ-centered. While some experiences may be more explicit in Christ language than others, all are welcome to attend and participate to whatever degree they desire.
Break Bread Together: Foster an atmosphere of joy, gratitude, and spirit around shared meals. Let these times be opportunities for genuine conversation and connection.
Respect Individual Rhythms: Recognize that everyone's needs and schedules differ. Offer multiple gathering times to accommodate diverse lifestyles.
Encourage Contribution: Invite community members to lead prayers or prepare meals, allowing for a diversity of expressions and traditions.
Celebrate Diversity: Welcome various forms of prayer and dietary needs, ensuring that all feel included and respected in these shared experiences.
Extend Grace: If someone is unable to attend, extend understanding. The spirit of community persists beyond physical gatherings.
Reflect and Adapt: Regularly seek feedback on these shared times, remaining open to evolving the practice to best serve the community's needs.

The goal is to create a rhythm of gathering that enriches the community without becoming a burden. These shared moments of prayer and meals are opportunities to experience the kingdom of God in a tangible way. They provide a space where the community can center down together, connecting more deeply with each other, with the divine, and with the creative force that flows through all things.

Live in the Tension

Love isn't always easy. Relationships between friends, spouses, neighbors, and God are often challenging. Selah House is not an exception. But as we dwell in the creative tension between self and community, personal and shared, we reap the profound benefits of ongoing healthy relationships. Rather than seeking easy answers or false dichotomies, we acknowledge the creative and spiritual power that exists in living in creative tension and finding the third way that opens new creative paths.

Personal and Communal: Recognize the tension between individual expression and community harmony. Your unique voice matters, but so does the collective symphony. Find ways to express yourself authentically while contributing to the greater whole.
Freedom and Discipline: Embrace the tension between artistic freedom and the discipline of practice. Spontaneity and structure both have their place in the creative process.
Tradition and Innovation: Honor the wisdom of tradition while remaining open to new inspirations. The tension between old and new can birth fresh expressions of timeless truths.
Doubt and Faith: Don't shy away from doubt, but don't let it paralyze you either. Let your questions deepen your faith rather than diminish it.
Humility and Confidence: Cultivate the humility to learn from others and the confidence to trust your own voice. Neither arrogance nor self-deprecation serves the creative spirit.
Rootedness and Growth: Stay grounded in your core beliefs while remaining open to growth and change. Like a tree, be firmly rooted yet always reaching higher.
Solitude and Community: Value both time alone for personal reflection and time in community for shared inspiration. Each nourishes the other.
Giving and Receiving: Practice both generosity in sharing your gifts and humility in receiving from others. The creative life thrives on this reciprocity.

Living in the tension isn't about finding a comfortable middle ground, but about dynamically engaging with these opposing forces and making something new. It's in this creative tension that true growth, innovation, and spiritual depth occur. By embracing these tensions, we create a rich, multifaceted environment at Selah House that fosters both individual growth and community flourishing.

Practice Honesty

Honesty is a cornerstone of authentic community and personal growth at Selah House. It's about being truthful not just with others, but with yourself and with God.

Self-Reflection: Regularly examine your motivations, fears, and desires. Be willing to confront the uncomfortable truths about yourself. This isn't about self-criticism, but about clear-eyed self-awareness.
Authenticity in Expression: Allow your art to reflect your true spiritual state, whether that's joy, doubt, anger, or peace. Don't simply create what you think others want to see, but what genuinely grows from your journey with God.
Vulnerability in Community: Share your struggles and victories with others in the community. Create a safe space where people can be real about their spiritual journeys without fear of judgment.
Honesty with God: In your prayers and meditations, be completely honest with God. Don't hide your doubts, fears, or disappointments. Remember, God can handle your raw emotions and questions.
Loving Truth-Telling: When you see something in another community member that needs addressing, speak the truth in love. This isn't about criticism, or controlling our environment, but about helping each other grow.
Receiving Feedback: Be open to hearing hard truths from others. Listen without defensiveness, recognizing that feedback is a gift for your growth.
Acknowledging Limitations: Be honest about your skills, time, and energy. Don't overcommit or pretend to be something you're not. It's okay to say "no" or "I don't know."
Confronting Biases: Be willing to examine and challenge your own biases, prejudices, and assumptions. This is crucial for creating an inclusive and diverse community.
Embracing Doubt: Recognize that doubt is part of the spiritual journey. Be honest about your questions and uncertainties, seeing them as opportunities for deeper faith rather than threats to it.

The goal of honesty is not to achieve perfection, but to create a community where people can be authentically themselves, growing together in faith and creativity. It's about creating a space where masks can come off, and real transformation can occur. This kind of honesty can be challenging, but it's essential for the deep, meaningful connections and personal growth that Selah House aims to foster.

Forgive Constantly

Practice forgiveness daily, with others and yourself. Forgiveness is not just about letting go of past hurts, but about creating space for new growth and deeper connections. By practicing radical forgiveness, you're cultivating an environment where creativity can flourish, relationships can deepen, and spiritual transformation can occur.

Forgiveness is not just an action, but a way of being that transforms relationships and nurtures spiritual growth.

Self-Forgiveness: Begin with yourself. Acknowledge your mistakes without dwelling on them. Treat yourself with the same compassion you'd offer others.
Daily Practice: Make forgiveness a daily habit, not just a response to major offenses. Address small grievances before they grow.
Forgive Proactively: Don't wait for apologies. Choose to forgive even when it's not asked for or seemingly deserved.
See Beyond Actions: Try to understand the pain or fear behind hurtful actions. This doesn't justify the behavior but can make forgiveness easier.
Release Resentment: Recognize that holding onto resentment hurts you more than the offender. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.
Forgiveness as Growth: View the challenge of forgiveness as an opportunity for personal and spiritual development.
Seek Forgiveness: Be quick to acknowledge your own mistakes and ask for forgiveness. This cultivates humility and empathy.
Forgive Repeatedly: Understand that forgiveness is often a process, not a one-time event. Be patient with yourself and others.
Separate Forgiveness from Reconciliation: Recognize that while forgiveness is always possible, reconciliation may not always be wise or safe.
Teach Forgiveness: Share your journey of forgiveness with others in the community, fostering a culture of grace and understanding.

Cultivate Silence

In our noisy world, silence is a powerful tool often overlooked. At Selah House, we embrace silence as the foundation for all expression - artistic, spiritual, and personal. Silence isn't just the absence of sound; it's a presence that deepens our awareness and connection to the divine. It enhances both our quiet reflections and our most ecstatic expressions. By cultivating silence, we create space for creativity to flourish and for the divine to speak. This practice grounds us in the dynamic presence of the Creator, offering clarity and depth in an often distracting and distracted culture.

Daily Practice: Incorporate periods of silence into your daily routine. This could be through meditation, contemplative prayer, or simply sitting in quiet reflection.
Silent Spaces: Access the quiet areas within Selah House where people can retreat for silent reflection.
Listening Deeply: Use silence as a tool to listen more deeply - to yourself, to others, and to God.
Creative Incubation: Recognize silence as a fertile ground for creativity. Allow ideas to germinate in quiet moments.
Communal Silence: Incorporate the Selah House prayers rhythms into your daily practice. These periods of shared silence in group activities foster a sense of collective presence.
Nature's Quiet: Encourage time in nature as a way to experience restorative silence.
Inner Stillness: Practice maintaining inner silence even amidst external noise or activity.
Digital Detox: Regularly unplug from technology to cultivate a deeper sense of silence and presence.
Silence as Foundation: Recognize silence as the foundation for all sound. Just as the blank canvas gives meaning to the paint, silence gives context to noise and music.
Inform the Ecstatic: We welcome God in the quiet and loud. What we experience in silence can lead us to powerful ecstatic experiences. And what we experience in the ecstatic can lead us into deep presence-filled silence.
Ecstatic Silence: Explore the concept of "ecstatic silence" - moments of profound stillness that can be as powerful and transformative as the loudest expressions.

Serve with Joy

This rule emphasizes the importance of approaching service not as a burden, but as a joyful expression of love and gratitude. It aligns with our vision of a community where love is transformative and service is an integral part of spiritual growth.

Reframe Service: See service not as a duty, but as an opportunity to express love and gratitude. It's a privilege to contribute to the well-being of others and the community.
Find Your Unique Way to Serve: Recognize that service can take many forms. We encourage each other to serve in ways that align with our gifts and passions. This could be through art, hospitality, teaching, or practical support.
Balance Giving and Receiving: Remember that it's okay to receive service as well. Create a community where everyone has the opportunity to both give and receive.
Serve from Abundance: Remember that true service comes from a place of fullness, not depletion. Regularly "fill your cup" through spiritual practices and self-care so you can serve from abundance.
Celebrate Acts of Service: Acknowledge and appreciate the service of others. Create a culture where acts of service, big and small, are recognized and celebrated.
Learn from Service: Approach service as a learning opportunity. Be open to what you can learn from those you serve and from the act of serving itself.
Serve Beyond Comfort Zones: Encourage stepping out of comfort zones to serve in new ways. This can lead to personal growth and unexpected joy.
Connect Service to Spirituality: It's not just about tasks, but about embodying love and growing closer to God.
Find Joy in the Process: Focus on the joy of serving rather than just the outcome. The act of service itself can be a source of fulfillment and spiritual growth.

The true joy in service comes from looking to God, not to external validation or recognition. When we serve with joy, we're not wearing a mask or performing for others, but authentically expressing our connection to Christ.

By emphasizing joyful service, we're creating a community at Selah House where service is not a burden but a natural expression of love and creativity. This approach can transform mundane tasks into sacred acts, fostering a deep sense of purpose and connection among community members.

Serving with joy doesn't mean ignoring difficulties or challenges. It's about finding meaning and purpose even in the midst of hard work or challenging situations. This attitude can be transformative, both for the individual and for the community as a whole.

Live Simply

Even though Selah House wants to be a place of focus, clarity, and spiritual depth, we admit it's hard not to become distracted when we have so many ideas and ambitions, and our attention is sought after in so many ways. But we meet in silence everyday to reorient ourselves with the Source of Peace, and we keep this rule with us: live simply. Selah House is a place to cultivate the precious resource of attention. Living simply creates space for creativity, spirituality, and genuine connection.

Simplify Your Schedule: Be intentional about your commitments. Learn to say no to activities that don't align with your core values or distract you from deepening your practice. This discipline creates space for what truly matters.
Practice Mindful Consumption: Be conscious of what you bring into your life - whether it's material goods, media, or ideas. Choose quality over quantity.
Embrace Silence: Make time for quiet in your daily routine. This can be through meditation, prayer, or simply sitting in stillness. Silence can be a powerful antidote to the noise of modern life.
Financial Simplicity: Be mindful of your financial habits. Avoid unnecessary debt and cultivate contentment with what you have.
Digital Detox: Regularly unplug from technology. This can help you reconnect with yourself, others, and the physical world around you.
Simplify Your Spiritual Practice: Focus on the core elements of your faith. What are the essential practices that truly nourish your spirit?

Simplicity isn't about deprivation. It's about making room for abundance in the things that truly matter. Sometimes we need to let go of what isn't ours to hold in order to connect more deeply with the Source.

Creative Tithing

Creative Tithing is a spiritual practice of mutual support where artists, practitioners, seekers, and community members share what they have — time, resources, art, presence, and finances — to help one another live and create from a place of freedom and faith. It moves beyond traditional fundraising or consumer models, inviting people into a rhythm of giving and receiving rooted in trust, not transaction. At its heart, Creative Tithing is about making space for sacred work to flourish — not just for the benefit of the artist, but for the good of the whole community.

Sacred Circle: Creative tithing forms a circle where artists, supporters, and community members all deepen their spiritual art practices together. This transcends traditional donor-recipient relationships.
Economics of Grace: We embrace an economy where all participants, whether giving financially, offering artwork, providing space, or sharing wisdom, are essential to the creative ecosystem.
Discernment of Paths: We affirm both gift and market pathways for creative work. Neither is inherently superior; discernment about which serves the deeper purpose is itself a spiritual practice.
Transparent Interdependence: We commit to honesty about our needs and resources. We share stories of transformation that counter the scarcity mindset of conventional art economics.
Collective Listening: Together, we discern when to give, when to receive, and how to honor the sacred exchange between us. We listen for guidance about stewarding our resources for all.
Creative Liberation: This practice creates space for everyone to experience freedom from overemphasizing market-driven values. We celebrate when supporters find their creativity awakened and artists discover new abundance.
Growing Together: As we practice creative tithing, we trust God's spirit to reveal new pathways beyond the art industry's limitations. Our collective capacity for creativity expands as we draw closer to the Creator.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do you call it a "Rule"?

The term "Rule" comes from ancient monastic traditions (like the Rule of St. Benedict), where it refers to a guiding principle or framework for living in community and fostering spiritual growth. It's not a rigid set of laws, but a liberating invitation to mindful practice and relationship. At Selah House, our Rule helps us cultivate rhythms of rest, creativity, and spiritual depth in a modern context, open to all.

Do I need to be Christian to stay at Selah House?

No, you do not. We are rooted in the creative hospitality of Jesus' love. It's about holding a space where each maker, regardless of their background or beliefs, feels genuinely welcomed, valued, and free to develop their unique practices.

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